I realised that whenever we get offended by something someone said.
The issue lies in us.
It is almost like…. if someone says “Hey, you have green hair.”
Then I would be like “Huh, you talking about me? I don’t have green hair.”
And I would think “Whatever, green hair….that’s funny”
So I realised if I get offended by something somebody said, that person must have hit a sore spot in me.
With that awareness, I can work on myself.